新年赠言
thethingsyouhavealwayswantedtodobutcouldnotfindthe
time.要使今年比往年过得更好.一定要做些你一直想做却总也没有时间做的事情.
Callupforgottenfriends.Dropanoldgrudge,andreplaceit
withsomepleasantmemories.Shareafuystorywithsomeone
whoseritearedragging.Agoodlaughcanbeverygood
medicine.打个电话给淡忘的朋友.抛弃宿怨,代之以美好的记忆.给情绪低落者讲个笑话,开怀大笑可能是一剂良药.
Vownottomakeapromiseyoudon’tthinkyoucankeep.Paya
debt.Giveasoftaweriteadofaharshone.Freeyourself
ofenvyandmalice.
决不要许任何空头的诺言,还清欠债.答话时语气轻柔,切莫生硬,把自己从忌妒和怨恨中解脱出来.
Encouragesomeyouthtodohisorherbest.Shareyour
experienceandoffersuort.Youngpeopleneedrolemodels
morethantheyneedcritics.Makeagenuineefforttostayin
closertouchwithyourfamilyandgoodfriends.
鼓励年轻人全力以赴地工作.把自己的经验传授给他们,支持帮助他们.年轻人更需要的是正面的榜样引导而不是批评.真心实意地努力同家人和好友保持更为密切的关系.
Resolvetostopmagnifyingsmallproblemsandshootingfrom
thehip.Wordsthatyouhavetoeatcanbehardtodigest.
坚决不要把小问题扩大化,也不要信口开河乱说话,说错了话要收回可就使你为难了.
Findtimetobekindandthoughtful."I’mtoobusy"isalame
excuse.Allofushavethesameallotmentoftime-24hoursa
day.尽量抽出时间关心和体贴他们."我太忙"是一种站不住脚的借口.上帝分配给我们每个人的时间都一样——每天24小时.
Giveacompliment.Itmightgivesomeoneabadlyneededlift.
Listenmore.Thinkthingsthrough.Don’tmakerashjudgment.
Forgiveinjustice.Bekind.
要赞美别人.这可能会给人以迫切需要的鼓舞.多听多想,遇事三思,不要轻率下结论.原谅不公正.友好待人.
Apologizewhenyourealizeyouarewrong.Anapologynever
diminishesaperson.Itelevatesthem.Don’tblowyourown
horn.Ifyoudosomethingpraiseworthy,someonewill
eventuallynotice.
意识到自己错了就道歉.勇于道歉只会抬高你自己,丝毫不会贬低你.别自我吹嘘,假如你做出什么值得称赞的事情,终会有人知道.
Trytounderstandapointofviewthatisdifferentfromyour
own,fewthingsare100percentonewayoranother.Examine
thedemandsyoumakeonothers.尽力去理解与你自己不同的观点.不管怎样,世间的事几乎没有十全十美的.检查一下你对别人的要求是否合理.
Lightenup.Whenyoufeellikeblowingyourtop,askyourself
,"willitmatteraweekfromtoday"Laughtheloudestwhen
thejokeisonyou.情绪要轻松愉快.每当要大发雷霆时,就问自己:"这样做一周后还值吗"别人开你的玩笑时,你的笑声不妨比别人更大些.
Thesurewaytohaveafriendistobeone.Weareall
coectedbyourhumanity,andweneedeachother.Avoid
malcontentsandpeimists.Theydrayyoudownandcontribute
nothing.拥
